this dilemma of mine. i saw it coming but i didnt know it was going to be this tough. it's great knowing people like chris, wenli,glenda,serene,gerry. they have given me great insight which is helping me alot. even with all that, im still somehow lost. then i recalled a conversation i had with charles. i don't know why that conversation is stuck in my head. maybe, it's a bold, striking heading which is helping me through this decision time. and it's true what he told me. "we never know what we want. no one can decide for sure what he/she wants to be". somehow, that conversation gave/gives me hope, light, determination. i know ppl will talk if i do make a decision to go for it but i think back to what Charles told me and i see whats happening around me, i think i won't regret it. as tough as the process may be, perseverance, focus and determination will get me through.
A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. Never leave that till tomorrow, he said, which you can do today. This is the man who discovered electricity. You think more people would listen to what he had to say. I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo? The early bird catches the worm. A stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we hadn't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin really meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.
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